January 29, Mr. Zhou took his son's photograph to the police station.0 W* z/ e& h7 x7 H' l
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After the final exam, students who started small Yi poor performance for fear of being punished parents have been afraid to go home, in Internet cafes spent four days and four nights, parents painstakingly to find him. What needs to communicate between Internet addiction and juvenile parents full of anxiety? Psychological experts said, the reconstruction and the child's communication platform, not as imagined so simple.. i0 [2 k1 I5 D1 q2 N
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/ b- p% d- R% W gYesterday morning, 12-year-old student who started small Yi (a pseudonym) and parents finally say five days to the first sentence. After the end of the January 24 date of the examination, he has dared to go home.5 a" H5 y; u+ t+ s$ H
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Fear of being punished because of poor academic performance, small Yi after the students take home one night and hid in an Internet cafe. Father Chow nearby cafes in Chengdu Cuqiao searched five days, and finally his son looking back. But he said he and his wife took two years, but never really come into his son's heart:. "I feel hurdle between us, I want to dig his heart son, but it is a step, but that hurdle."
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After the final exam son has not come home" P9 A/ [* l0 X' Q' `. D8 Q- T
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Small Yi exodus day is Thursday, school exams last Section 16:00 end. Mr. Zhou and his wife make dinner, but has not until his son home. They are close to home a few blocks to find a circle, did not find traces of his son.5 U- m0 l q& N h
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"We thought he was fun out of the Internet, will come back the next morning." 25 May the couple waited for a morning, still no news. Chow to school I asked the teacher to know, after the end of the day before the exam, when the class is still focused named Xiao Yi, later leaving together and students.) R# I6 F/ M! _ o' |0 U
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After twists and turns,[url=[第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]valledeidossi.it/]hogan uomo],[url=[第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]tremii###][第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]tremii###], Chow contacted and son left the students together. The students said that the day is a small Yi spent the night at his house, but left the next morning, probably in the vicinity of Internet cafes.
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Parents searching the Internet without fear of being punished if the son of the online message4 a6 c. ~( A4 ^9 {# U8 T
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Under the guidance of the students, Mr. Zhou couple then began to find his son in Cuqiao nearby Internet cafes. "Hard to find those places open Internet cafes, we usually do not find." 25, 26, looking for a couple days in the cafe, and some cafes open on the second floor, the location is very secretive, Internet cafe owners fear inspection, vigilance is high, Chow couple can only go quietly,[url=http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/ebest-dvd/0000001046080.html]http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/ebest-dvd/0000001046080.html],[url=[第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]europhoto1.it]tiffany milano], one by one to identify.
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2 n3 q% ~! r: |# |4 v! ]' W/ kJanuary 27, when his son was still missing Chow legitimate worry for the teacher to the school to receive notification of his small Yi examination transcripts. Get the transcripts, Mr. Zhou angry and shook his head: "150 points out of the subject, his highest of the two subjects had only a 90 multisection, the other had only a 60 points."7 N8 f( C# B# ^7 D1 \. g2 x
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; k, c& r& h0 Z4 [2 T: XIn the morning,[url=[第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]pizza-lafo.de][第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]pizza-lafo.de], students on QQ saw a small Yi left the message: "I'm still outside, afraid of being punished." Time the message was the same morning, Mr. Zhou infer son should also Internet cafes.
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Through QQ retrieve son he had spent four days in Internet cafes- T, x% ?2 T! V1 s Z4 E
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Son disappeared in a few days, Mr. Zhou couple worried heavier. January 28, four days after the disappearance of his son,[url=[第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]terraria.fr/]canada goose pas cher], Mr. Zhou's cell phone received a text message from strangers. This is a message sent to the wrong, but let Mr. Zhou couple worried about his son has been kidnapped. 29 morning, Zhou rushed to Golden and Cuqiao two police station.9 L; \+ h0 k4 n; E
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7 c$ `; b8 f B u- F6 \. }1 ?Police reminded in the afternoon, by the son of Mr. Zhou students in small Yi QQ contacted. That evening, the couple finally found his son in an Internet cafe. At this time,[url=http://wx.jazzsynth###/wxcgi/kizai/sunkizai.cgi?mode=form&no=97&page=]http://wx.jazzsynth###/wxcgi/kizai/sunkizai.cgi?mode=form&no=97&page=], Xiao Yi has spent four days and nights in the cafe.
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$ }% N/ S7 |, `3 cSmall Yi home, and parents have been afraid to speak, Mr. Zhou did not ask. After dinner, Chow paved blankets, let his son asleep early.
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Father and son exchange is very difficult ▲
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4 o% b. H% B0 J9 X9 P: vMr. Zhou and his wife came to Chengdu to work a few years ago, when small Yi is still small, his hometown in Chongqing, along with grandparents. The couple did not notice, home visits a year, his son and their exchanges less and less.4 S- ]& L0 _' f1 X# }
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Zhou said: "Two years ago we received his Chengdu,[url=http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/topism/bottoms-25-topism.html]http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/topism/bottoms-25-topism.html], he often went out of our busy Internet, he did not have time.." To see his son like computers, Chow specially bought him one. But sometimes the lunch to his son a few days gone, then a check, to know his son take it online.
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' e2 y- v8 m* \; d) M% ZOn the first day of the semester son, Chow several times and he would "dig pit of the stomach child", exchange about future plans, but every small Yi, then do not have much, "he just listen to me, I finished on the end. "
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Because almost without a computer, until small Yi missing, the couple did not know his son Zhou QQ number.
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{& I9 J' P5 ]8 M7 R VYesterday, the parents questioning, Xiao Yi finally speak out of experience from home these days. "That home from the students out, I went to Internet cafes. I know you are looking for me,[url=[第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]mirtiemelograni.it]hogan rebel], then I would like to stay in Internet cafes." Xiao Yi said he was not any of this test well, know home may be punished, better to relax in the cafe.
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3 j4 S+ \6 C/ Z. h4 x% P3 @6 ]- S( KSmall Yi is to the students borrow money to Internet cafes. In Internet cafes,[url=[第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]alg-a.org/spip.php?article1888][第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]alg-a.org/spip.php?article1888], in addition to his dinner, he has been wandering in the Internet. Although he also wanted to go home,[url=http://kiku-bsd.cc.it-hiroshima.ac.jp/cgi-bin/bbs/aska.cgi]http://kiku-bsd.cc.it-hiroshima.ac.jp/cgi-bin/bbs/aska.cgi], but the thought parents would scold poor grades, it is not resolved., K6 u; ^- H! I6 ]& S1 U# _5 V4 b
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( e5 I0 K3 q7 X. d$ _% o$ q"Parents are busy, and I rarely talk to communicate, I prefer playing online games." In order to decorate their own QQ image, enhance the game characters, small Yi spent most of pocket money to buy virtual game currency above. In his view, much more relaxed than at home in the cafe. Experts say communication with their children should learn to listen and understand
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2 U" Z& t! p% c5 {7 u' O6 qYuan Yin, director of the Chengdu minors psychological center, said the apparent lack of channels of communication between couples and small Yi Zhou. Small Yi like the Internet, and network Zhou couples unfamiliar, it's like there is no common topic of the two sides,[url=[第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]bbs520.net/home.php?mod=space&uid=44102][第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]bbs520.net/home.php?mod=space&uid=44102], difficult to talk about rope. Chow couple takes a long period of time, through the daily care and communication, real understanding of the child's heart, rebuild channels of communication between parents and children. On the other hand, communicate with their children should learn to listen and understand, you can not come on to preach, so that the child will be very inconsistent, reluctant to speak their thoughts.
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4 ?# z6 ^, N" @3 _; BYuan Yin reminded, like small Yi current situation, needs the guidance of a professional psychiatrist, grasp the method of communication with the child in the details.
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Do not just demanding parents
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5 days away,[url=[第一私募论坛]http://www.simu001.cn]fotogeros.it]hogan outlet], small Yi finally home, but we do not know how long his soul can really go home.' M! S, u% U5 V W
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In fact, the reporter inside very small Yi parents understand the situation. In the high-speed operation of modern society, everyone will have to pay a lot of effort to make money work, adapt to the high efficiency of the social life. We may ignore the children have become a "lack of playmates generation."
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( S, n% N. q/ j) ^; G+ \Perhaps the appeal of parents for their children to stay a little time while society should give children more attention, even if only to open up a number of special activities, or provide some extracurricular activities and games.9 d J7 ]0 n5 p( q- l6 ?
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